A real eye does more than look it perceives. As we move through life, there comes a moment when the surface smiles, rehearsed words, and polished images no longer distract us from what is true. We begin to notice the inconsistencies, the subtle shifts in energy, and the difference between what people say and whatContinue reading “Real Eyes Realize”
Author Archives: Dr. Paul Samuel Young
The Last Ride
Life is often compared to a long ride, filled with changing scenery, unexpected stops, and people who get on and off without warning. Along the way, we meet individuals who laugh with us, build with us, and promise loyalty, only for some of them to reveal hidden intentions when the road gets rough. The painContinue reading “The Last Ride”
Sidewalk Executive
The “Sidewalk Executive” is the person who wears success like a costume but has not yet developed the character to match it. With a little money in their pocket and the appearance of status, they begin to move differently head high, tone sharp, and attitude distant from the very people they once stood beside. TheyContinue reading “Sidewalk Executive”
The Bless and the Mess
In life, there is often a quiet tension between the blessing of having a good heart and the mess that comes from being taken for granted. People who move through the world with genuine kindness, who give without keeping score, and who show up for others without being asked, frequently find themselves overlooked or undervalued.Continue reading “The Bless and the Mess”
Black Label
A Black label is often placed on intelligent and educated Black men in ways that distort their identity and complicate their sense of belonging. In predominantly White spaces, their competence and confidence can be perceived as threatening, their voices monitored more closely, and their achievements treated as exceptions rather than the result of discipline andContinue reading “Black Label”
A Spider Onboard
A spider on board is a powerful image of what happens when no one takes ownership of the ship. It represents the silent spread of neglect threads of unfinished tasks, poor communication, and shifting blame weaving themselves into the structure of a team or organization. When accountability is absent, small problems are ignored until theyContinue reading “A Spider Onboard”
The Walk on Hollow Grounds
Walking through life on hollow ground is the quiet experience of moving forward while never feeling completely secure in where you stand. Each step is cautious, measured, and often accompanied by the fear that any wrong move will expose weakness or lead to failure. A timid person living in this space may appear functional onContinue reading “The Walk on Hollow Grounds”
The Unforgettable
Family relationships are often expected to be the safest spaces for love, trust, and mutual support, which is why experiences of disrespect and disloyalty within the family can feel especially painful and unforgettable. Disrespect in families can appear in subtle and overt ways through dismissive language, lack of appreciation, broken promises, public humiliation, or theContinue reading “The Unforgettable”
The End to a Beginning
Paul Samuel Young’s doctoral journey represents a sustained commitment to purpose, perseverance, and transformation. What began as an aspiration to elevate both personal scholarship and professional impact evolved into a mission grounded in service to others particularly adult learners navigating stress, loneliness, and systemic barriers in the post-pandemic era. From the earliest coursework to theContinue reading “The End to a Beginning”
Emotions and It’s Appraisals
Emotions are powerful internal signals that shape how individuals interpret experiences, respond to challenges, and navigate daily life. They arise from interactions between personal beliefs, past experiences, and present circumstances, influencing motivation, behavior, and decision-making. Emotions are not inherently positive or negative; rather, they serve as indicators that something meaningful is occurring, calling for attention,Continue reading “Emotions and It’s Appraisals”
